I am trying to write about my most recent experience playing in public with Sir. It’s hard, because it was so intense. There’s so much to write about. Where we are as a couple- just that part is a (very serious, not so horny) post on its own. It’s been difficult recently, very difficult. We…
Kink is not a cure for grief. Getting dressed up is not a cure for grief. Wriggling into silk and sequins, slinking in front of a full- length mirror, dancing at your own reflection, rejoicing in the sight of your own bare shoulders and nape… none of this will bring them back to…
These past few days without The Adorable Sadist have been quite a revelation. I have missed him profoundly. Sunday was the first day in perhaps five months where we didn’t see each other or speak once on the phone. Since we’ve been together, for about seven of the last 9 months, we’ve spoken every day.…